It is true. They are not real. Most of us are looking for extraordinary things in life, some of us wanting miracles to happen, and some of us just wanted to get their relationships back. How about asking for something realistic, like someone who truly cares for you or someone who can truly understand you. Why do we always ask for something that breaks us apart in the first place? Why do we always choose the one who hurt us? And why do we keep on coming back for something that we’re not sure anymore?
The famous line of “Comeback is real” doesn’t really
exist in your fairy tale. In reality, it’s more like of a nightmare
that you wanted to escape as soon as you open your eyes. The only reason that
you wanted to come back is that of the memories you had with someone. Memories that are so pure, that you don’t want to lose for the rest of
your life. But those memories come with
lies, pain, and hatred that you
don’t want to remember. You’re being hesitant to do something that you wanted
to do for your partner. Why? Because of “Trust”.
Trust cannot come back the way you wanted
to. Even though how good he is,
you’ll be still doubtful to everything he does. It cannot be easily gain or
given. Now ask yourself how can you love someone without you trusting him? You
will always have that feeling that he’s
going to cheat on you even though he said that he was with his family. You’ll
always have that “What’s he doing right now feeling”. We don’t want to read between the lines all the time, doubting can kill
a relationship. And that’s the thing that you don’t want to happen.
Always remember this, when you and
your partner came back to a relationship
it will never be the same thing again. Not the same love, not the same
friendship, not the same person you know.
Everything will be changed in an instant. All your hopes and expectations will
be gone, so as your long lost love. You will not be going to look at her the
same way before. You’ll always look at
her like it was the last time. Your eyes will slowly drift away and so as
your feelings. It will be a nostalgic feeling for you, as you remember the first time you saw her.
Your mind tells you to look at her and smile, but your heart is insisting you
to cry. At that moment of your life,
you will feel like you’re a falling mirror, waiting to be shattered anytime.
It’s not easy to forget about the past, it’s not easy to forget
about the feelings and memories
you had. But one thing certain, everything will slowly fade away as time passes by. You’re just going to
laugh at all the pain and sacrifices
you’ve been through with the one you love someday. Don’t let the past bring
burden to your heart, don’t let the memories
haunt you every day. Do not force anything. Let love come back to where it belongs. Love will come back when you started to love and believe in
yourself.
